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Thursday, February 9th, 2001
I'm taking a week off from QueerDom. Check back in next Wednesday to see what I got to say.
Wednesday, January 31st, 2001
>Updated Today: QNews ¤ Link of the Day: They Own You
Wednesday, January 23th, 2001
>Updated Today: Main Page ¤ Link of the Day: Noggin! ¤ Total Names Dropped - 16
Sorry kids for the nearly Thursday update of QueerDom. You just don't seem to understand that I have what is commonly reffered to as a life now that I have a boyfriend. It's not like we're painting the town red while I'm painting him white, but days start slipping all together.
Time flys when your having fun. Ask this guy...
In other news, some crazy woman let me babysit her two boys. (Shown here) Why any foolish woman would leave me unattended with two other human beings incapable of taking care of themselves is beyond me. What's worse is that she left Chicken Run with us too. Ghaustly!
Do you think you're better off alone? I bet these guys wished they could be alone right now. And to think, I actually tried out to be a contestant on this radio station's promotion. 10 grand was sounding really good, but now, it's no big loss that I wasn't insane enough to be included.
I really wished I had something more queer for you. People are always telling me my site isn't faggy enough. It's as if they think I sit in my gay computer chair in front of my bent computer monitor trying to think of poofish things to say about my homosexual lifestyle. Whatever.
At least I'm not rambling about politics anymore and showing off my tits instead.
Thursday, January 18th, 2001
>Updated Today: Main Page ¤ Link of the Day: The Original Queer As Folk ¤ Total Names Dropped - 21
You know, I haven't dipped into the QueerDom Mail Bag lately, have I? What?! You didn't know we had a QueerDom Mail Bag? Well, we do. And you can help fill it by sending mail to this address. Until I get to your letter, here is what we've recieved recently.
Dead By Dawn, who's a frequent parol violator over at the HSX sent me this link. Quite honestly with some of them, I can't decide if they are alive or not, much less goth or not. What's really interesting is, per the rules of engagement of being a goth, if any one gets a rating higher than 7, they will be stripped of their gothtitude. Remember, goths can be as gothy as they wanna be, just as long as no one, including themselves, claim to actually be a goth.
BlackSunshine wrote "I appreciate it!" While I'm not quite sure if his comment referrs to this picture or this one, I'm pretty sure the Asian Hottie is definately glad that he's on Stile Project's Webcam instead of me.
Qian Elliot wrote "I am so so sorry. I didn't mean to do that.What can I do to make it up?" I guess I should tell you why Qian is completely and totally in my debt, huh? Well, it was last Friday night and Ashley and I were enjoying an engaging game of Scrabble and lo and behold Qian phoned us completely ruining the climax of our game! I'm not ashamed to tell you that Ash has a little trouble preforming. Especially when stuck with a Q without a U, but who doesn't? It's not like the game is bad, but when I get that bored look in my eye while he's struggling over there, we got problems. Well, his hands were caressing the tiles on his rack fevorishly and I could tell he was about to come up with a word. Then the goddamn phone rings, ruining everything! So that's why Qian is in my debt. And quite honestly ,Qian, there is nothing short of letting us watch a threesome between you, Jeremy, and Qale that will make us happy again.
So there you have it: Another week, another update. Only a day late. Be well, pretties, and I'll see you again next week.
Wednesday, January 10th, 2001
>Updated Today: QNews ¤ QNews Archives ¤ Link of the Day- Freak Show
Thursday, January 4th, 2001
>Updated Today: Main Page ¤ QueerCAM Archives ¤ Link of the Day- BOG - ¤ Total Names Dropped - 11
You would think with my first posting of the new melianieminemimum I'd have a whole lot on my mind, right? I could talk about my New Years party, or how I believe what the world needs is more strict penalties for parol violators -- and world peace. But no, all I have to say in this update is I'm sorry I don't update more often.
No.
I'm not making that my New Year's Resolution or anything. God knows how long that'd last. It's my fault that QNews still reflects us in a state of Constitutional Crisis considering the Election. Who knows? Maybe with W in the White House later this month, we really will be in a Crisis. I recall growing up and having Bush Sr. making nightly speeches about why Saddam was such an evil evil man and that's why CNN was showing firework displays over some desert.
Anyway, I'm getting off track here. I can't promise I'll update more often. Once a week is hard enough as it is considering the movie stuff going on at the main site. And yeah, because I'm getting laid now every once in a while, I do tend to not think so much about what I'm going to say next time I type up an update. The fact of the matter is, folks, QueerDom is dying and I don't want it to. ClubQale was a disaster. QueerCam is fucked up. QNews hasn't been updated in months.
I guess I really just need to hear you say it, you know?
Tell me you love me.
Wednesday, December 27th, 2000
>Updated Today: Main Page ¤ Link of the Day- Dude Salad Dressing - ¤ Total Names Dropped - 20
Hello everyone. I got some pretty shitty news. If you haven't already figued it out, QueerCam is screwed up. What could have been your first sign is that it hasn't had an updated picture in forever. (Not to mention that it's not like all the others, what with its font and all.) The deal is AOL doesn't seem to want to let me upload a picture at the rate of one every thirty seconds. I haven't quite figured out exactly what rate is allowed, but anything longer would really make the Cam pretty useless. Of course, currently, it's pretty useless anyway. I wrote the folks that host this website and they really didn't help much. In any event, I'm going to keep working on the problem and will let you know when QueerCam can get back on. Until then, I've decided I will manually upload a picture whenever I feel like it just so there is something new to look at occationally.
In other news, I've been trading email with a stranger who came to me through "my website." Now, she could mean any number of sites that I'm currently webmastering but considering she speaks of gayity, I'm assuming it's this one. She has talked at length about her friend who is eighteen and questioning. She wanted advice and I hope I gave her the good kind and not the kind that will eventually fuck her and her friend's life up forever. I didn't proclaim to the be the end all, be all guide to all that is QueerDom, but I did let her know that sometimes he's going to have to figure things out for himself and that she can't be the one to fix all the people he breaks on the way. As Justin from Queer As Folk is learning, sometimes people will be whatever they want like that asshole Brian.
Brian, not this guy the girl in the letters are talking about. He's probably a really nice guy who just has a problem with his dick sucking tendencies. He'll eventually find out that we've all been there or somewhere close by. And in the end, he'll see there are people out there who do the alleged most crass and disgusting sexual things possible ("Do you like rimming?" "I *love* it.") who also happen to be some of the richest and most powerful men in America. And if that doesn't give him wood, then we may have to do something drastic.
Ashley is fine. He wanted you all to know that. He also wanted you to know that he can shove his entire fist down his throat by unhinging his jaw, but I really don't think I have the bandwidth or storage space for *that* use of our defunct webcam. I don't have any interest in becoming the gay version of Stile either, so that little trick Ash can do will just have to go unnoticed by queer society.
Until next time, get laid on New Years and I'll see you next Wednesday.
Saturday, December 23rd, 2000
This post is for someone who must go unnamed. He's very special to me and although he and I are not as close as we have been in the past, there is no doubt in my mind and heart that he continues to feel the same for me as he did then. The opposite is also very true.
So today, on International BoyLove Day, I celebrate the love I have for one who is barely a boy now. And I give him all the best wishes I can possibly dream. Everything that he asks, I do because it was out of this love that I became a better person dispite what society would condem out of misjudging.
Thank you readers for reminding me why you have open minds.
Thursday, December 21st, 2000
Mad shoutouts to the girl who plays the character of Kaelen who had her daughter around 6:30am today! Sure, the girl who plays the character of Missi told me all the spiffy details about height and weight, but you know me. I was so excited and dancing around like a freak wanting a cigar I didn't take notes. I wish her and her daughter, Sarah, very happy things for her first few days before her first Christmas and New Years.
Wednesday, December 20th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Mmm Fudge - Total Names Dropped - 4
So, Atlanta got a snow blow the other day with more expected Thursday and possible flurries for Christmas Morning. That's wonderful. There's nothing I enjoy more than watching my fair city completely shut down at the first hint of the white stuff. Reminds me of this one guy I dated who started my fear of semen. Yeah, imagine that: A gay guy afraid of semen. I'm not afraid of my own, mind you. (Though I'm not too keen on its taste either.) I dunno. Maybe it's just this constant influx of porn I've got coming into my life what with me dating a porn star and all. Oh, you didnt know that Ashley was a porn star? Well that whole factory thing is just a day job. You know, by day he's a plastics engineer at Plasti Corp., but by night he's Ash Nix Sexual Frenzy.
And speaking of sexual frenzies. A report came out today about boys and sex which I found more than slightly haliarious.
Public health experts say they are incresingly concerned that teenagers do not understand the risks and are confused about what constitutes as abstinence.
"As health educaters and parents, we've drilled the kids on the dangers of pregnancy," said Linda Alexander, president of the American Social Health Association. "We haven't talked as much about activities that don't result in pregnancy. Kids don't understand the risks of transmitting infection between the genital and oral areas."
Most sexually transmitted deseases -- whether viral, like herpes or hepatitis B, or bacterial, like gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia -- can be transmitted orally or genitally. Although most researchers say HIV is not easily transmitted through oral sex, such transmission is possible.
According to the study, many 15-19 year olds -- virgins and those who have intercourse -- are engaging in sexual activites that include oral and anal sex.
"While 55% of teenage males say they've had vaginal sex, two-thirds have had experiance with noncoital behaviours like oral sex, anal intercourse, or masterbation by a female," said Freya L. Sonestein, director of the Population Studies Center at the Urban Institute and one of the studies authors.
According to the findings, more than 1 in 10 boys had engaged with anal intercourse, half had recieved oral sex from a girl and slightly more than a third had preformed oral sex on a girl.
The national servey found significant differences among racial and ethnic groups: Black and Hispanic boys were almost twice as likely as whites to have had anal intercourse. While and Hispanic boys were about twice as likely as black to have preformed oral sex on a girl.
Many adolescents, according to the report, consider oral sex to be a precurser or substitute for intercourse and something that does not count as "sex."
Now, while there is enough comedic material there for Leno, Letterman, Kilborn, AND Conan to all feast upon for weeks, I thought I'd bring up some points that I thought while reading the report in my local paper.
Naturally there is aboslutely no mention of homosexuality in the report. If they did a good study and took a representative sample of the population, you know that there would definately be at least some cute, strapping young men who're bum buddies with more than a half dozen of their friends. Don't you think that that would account for the studies supposedly surprise finding that teenagers are having anal sex? Naturally the study doesn't mention the possibility of gay boys being included in their findings because according to many "gay children do not exist" (Jessie Helms) Of course, you're intellegent, and realize they DO exist.
However that doesn't undermine the bottom line answer the study does make quite clear. Kids are not realizing the dangers of non-vaginal sex. Fine. But, lemme ask you, how ARE they supposed to learn about these dangers if sex education in many states is a three day long workshop on how to continue being abstinate while preserving your body for Christ? Now, before you start sending me hate mail. Realize exactly what this study is saying.
Fact: Kids do not understand that anal and oral sex is dangerous.
Fact: Abstinance is THE law of the land when it comes to sex education in schools.
Fact: Conservative types do not want any further education of children to come from the schools.
Fact: Parents and children are too embarassed to have sex education conversations at home.
So it seems quite obvious to me that perhaps some more walls need to come down. Perhaps a little less shame should be shown and maybe some open, honest conversation needs to be had between precocious 12-15 year olds about what's *really* going on between their legs. It's not about sexualization of the young generation. Kids are having sex and will continue to have sex whether they think it's sex or not. The only thing we can do is make sure they are aware of the risks involved with having sex and not be stupid enough to believe they are all going to be abstinate little angels. The odds are much more likely they are buttfucking little sexual beings who don't even know they are doing is dangerous.
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Wednesday, December 13th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Club Qale - Link of the Day - Long Live Drows!
After thinking on this whole internet broadcasting thing, I've decided to let one of my alter egos have at the decks and a section of QueerDom. So introducing Club Qale. It's a place where you can find out what I'm currently listening to. (Cause after all, if there is a fine ass boy *behind* the DJ booth, you can bet there would be many in the club they were pushing to their dance limits.) Programs have been created and so that will make this whole thing more like a real station you can enjoy when you're playing Minesweeper.
Tuesday, December 12th, 2000
While it's not Donna Summers all the frickin' time, if you want to listen to what I'm listening to. Click on Queer Radio. It's probably illegal, but hell, isn't that what the internet is all about. Give it a listen, and like QueerCam, no promises on when if ever it will work constantly.
Wednesday, December 6th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Queer Friendly Links - QueerCam Gallery - Link of the Day - requiemforadream.com
Not much of an update today. Hey! Don't look at me like that! You got unscheduled updates Friday and Sunday!! What I do have for you is a link to my new roleplaying project. You can find that in the Queer Friendly Links section. And someone nabbed me preening for Ashley on the cam, so that's now a new pic in the photo gallery. Enjoy, cause I'm out for the night to see ODK preform. (For the first time in over a year!)
Sunday, December 3rd, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - The Trades
What exactly do you expect from an original series on Showtime when the first phrase out of any character's mouth is, "Men think about sex every twenty-eight seconds. Of course that's straight men, with gay men it's every nine." Then again, what are you supposed to think when you've been enticed to watch such a series with a theme that's cross between "That 70's Show" and a Pet Shop Boys video with its psychedelic colors intermeshed with flaming gay silhouettes?
Welcome to the American version of "Queer As Folk." And while this series is just as British as "Who Wants To Be A Millionaire," do we really want Reege to show his ass for a full on screen five seconds like some of the pretties do in this import?
Showtime, whose slogan is No Limits, has finally decided to take advantage of the gay population and is cruising a series with *those people* directly in their sights. It has all the drama of "Dawson's Creek" and yet all the (mostly) unflinching sex as Showtime's other original show. (Think red shoes.)
The show starts with the above quote casually thrown out by Michael. He's thirty -- which is just *too* old to be desirable -- and is lined up as usual with his friends amidst the rave and wonder of a gay nightclub called "Babylon." He's quickly given his views on "the gay lifestyle" in a concise soundbyte before venturing to claim another of his friends (Brian) from a back room where American viewers glimpse their first healthy taste of all that "Queer As Folk" has to offer in the skin department. Even with over twenty cuts made in the first episode, there is enough Adonis flesh to make viewers hungry for more while being equally entranced with the weaving storylines.
Next we meet, Justin. He's looking a little too young to be on the gay strip and naturally throws himself naively into the devilish arms of Brian. Their dialogue is quick. Pointed. Real. With their expressions just as rigid, you can feel their lust with every precise word.
"How's it going? You had busy night?"
"No. Just checking out the bars: Boy-Toy, Meat Hook."
"Meet Hook. Really? So you're into leather."
"Sure."
"Where you headed?"
"No place special."
"I can change that."
And suddenly you realize that you aren't just watching another amateur porny Friday Night on Pay Cable. The camera follows the two. Clothes start shedding with the proper "Whooshing" sound effects, and the techno beats fade back in. "Queer As Folk" is reminding you there is going to be more to their story. For the first time, it's *going* to be told. The cutaways eventually come, but not before the implied sex becomes real. Justin, who's fighting innocence with every word, and Brian who obviously is about the heat (and boy) of the moment then go on to a lengthy and toe-curling session of sex.
There are gay issues to be discussed, in between the sex and drama scenes. Tops and bottoms, impregnation of lesbians, harassment, and even more importantly in the first episode, ageism all are handled with multiple viewpoints so you can take which apply to how you feel. All are laced sweetly with a layer of completely queer humor that makes the show gain even another dimension. (To prove that gays are not all about sex, dispute what the first lines of dialogue said.)
Showtime has got twenty-two episodes lined up for hungry homosexuals and as long as the writing remains sharp, the characters continue to evolve, and the sex eternally presses the limits of pay television, I suspect the network may have something to toss at Sara Jessica Parker and her sexy "City" next awards season.
Friday, December 1st, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Evil + Angels - Queer Friendly Links - Total Names Dropped - 10
*The following was a rant I placed on the Ticker Talk boards of the Hollywood Stock Exchange*
I was already worried when the series was jumping the pond and attempting to alter the gay landscape of American TV. I knew it couldn't be done without an uproar. Remember the *gasp* gay Roseanne episode. What about Thirtysomething way the hell back in the earlier 80s? Even recently with Ellen's show becoming ground zero for target practice?
I get absolutely disgusted whenever Will & Grace is mentioned because I see that show and it's horrid writing as a disservice to homosexuals with their sitcomish steriotypical banter. Anything to get that 1/2 second laugh from a live studio audience.
MTV's Undressed is only a hair better. Showing that even younger gays can be portrayed on television with a slight bit of accuracy, the show still subscribes to over developed steriotypes.
And now, Queer As Folk, which showed that gay people are 3 dementional is coming to America. I should be happy and overjoyed, but instead I'm nervious and timid. Because Showtime has got within it's power another very important attempt to accurately portray the homosexual lifestyle. And naturally it's already getting censored.
>QUEER AS FOLK CENSORED
More than 20 cuts were made in Showtime's upcoming gay drama Queer as Folk after the pay-TV network voluntarily submitted the first six hours of the 22-hour series twice to the MPAA ratings board, Washington Post (very good article) TV writer Tom Shales reported today (Thursday). Shales quoted one unidentified cable industry executive as saying, "I'm surprised that [Showtime is] being so skittish about this ... because usually they go out of their way to court controversy." The channel's programming chief, Jerry Offsay, declined to discuss specific scenes that had been cut, but did tell Shales, "At some point somebody has to draw some line." He said that the MPAA meted out the equivalent to an NC-17 (a really good site) rating to the episodes on each of the two occasions, offering a list of suggested changes. He also told Shales that the producers did not object. "They were very happy with the final result," he said. "We've made changes and everybody was able to live with them. We're pretty comfortable with where we ended up."
-News Story comes from www.showbizdata.com a subscription site.
Wednesday, November 29th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Outwrite Bookstore - Total Names Dropped - 4
Not much of an update today. I know, I know. I'm sorry. But you don't understand. I'm going through some serious drama over here with my bestest friend joining the military and all. Sure, having a quite stable relationship (forgive the blurry picture) with a guy who's damn great at making plastic parts for computers is being a bouy (not to mention a boi) to my situation. And while I'm very much anxious to check out the newest attempt at gay television on Showtime Sunday. I just can't seem to get into a good enough mood to entertain you all this week.
Check out this instead and maybe I'll surprise you with something before next Wednesday.
Wednesday, November 22nd, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Turn Down Your Lights, Where Applicable - Total Names Dropped - 18
Don't forget if you ever catch me doing something... uh... interesting on QueerCam to right-click and send it back to me via email so I can post it in the gallery. That way we can have a whole selection of possible blackmail pictures for when I'm president of the USA on January 21st next year.
You know, I remember when a dimpled Chad was a boy you picked up on Pryor Street at 4:20 on Saturday mornings, gave hot cocoa in exchange for a quickie before church. But that's just me. To these election officials a Chad is life or death when it comes to their political futures. Yeah. Whatever. I think a famous patriot once said, "Give me liberty, or give me death." I'd like to alter that to, "Give me a goddamn fucking president, or let's just call the whole thing off!"
On a brighter note, I'd like to introduce to you my newest boyfriend, Ashley. And while I don't have a picture snagged of him on the webcam yet. (And I tried so hard, but he kept putting his left buttock up to the camera dispite my telling him we're on AOL.) Thus far I've spent more time in the last two weeks with this intellegent and downright delictable guy than I have with any of his most recent predecesors and I'm enjoying his presense more and more. So go figure he's gotta go and get a second job for the time being. ::sticks out my tongue:: Well, I guess that means I'll just have to swallow a little of my fallen Chad and accept the idea that maybe Quickies inside men's rooms while he's on break aren't below my style.
I'm going to call it a night, folks. Huge ass papers for this paperboy to deliver tonight and I got my cuz to help sling the bastards filled with advertisements for crap people don't need to buy with money they don't really have. Remember, you are not the contents of your wallet just as much as you aren't the presents underneath your crappy looking Christmas tree.
If you don't celebrate Christmas, happy Arbor day or something. I leave you today with a picture that my friend's daughter drew of Gundam Wing's Duo. (She's just a kid so don't write me asking for Quatre and Trowa hot 69 action, okay.)
Wednesday, November 15th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - QNews - QueerCam - Link of the Day - Mindless Surfing Meets Its Match
Thursday, November 9th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Hello Friend. My name is Nicky. - Named Dropped This Update 34
"Tighter than the lugnuts of a 55 Ford." -- Dan Rather, CBS News
And folks, he wasn't speaking of the new freshman quarterback at BackDoor High if you know what what I mean. But rather than be just like everyone else, I have decided I'm not going to talk about the election. Even if it's the closest election since elections were invented by Al Gore. No, no. I've decided I'm going to have me a brewsky like my ol' pal Dubya, eat Ho-Hos like my friend Clinton, and contemplate the O-Zone hole like Green Party canidate Nader.
I do have some things on my mind, though, and because you happen to be reading my website, I'll let you know what I'm thinking while hopefully providing enough entertainment value that you stay instead of loading up a game of FreeCell or something. (Mom, that joke was for you. Love you!)
Soundbreak.com has an MP3 available (and yes, Napster freaks, it's free) from former Kids in the Hall Scott Thompson that's definately worth the download. It's a rendition of Emenimeimeumenem's "Stan" in which a stalkerish fan is writing love letters to Em. The twist, as always, is homosexuality comes into play. Silly Canadians.
In other music news, dispite admiration by my friend Stephanie, I've decided the worst band of 2000 is 3 Doors Down. And considering this was the year we saw 2Gether and Pink take over the pop charts, not to mention undesired returns of matchbox twenty and The Wallflowers, the honor of being the worst band is really quite special. 3 Doors Down has exactly two radio aired songs which is saying more than SR-71. Except, both of 3 Doors Down's songs contain not only tired guitar solos but feature such witty lyrics such as: "You fell and bumped your head, if it weren't for me, then you'd be dead" (Kryptonite) and "I'm a loser, and sooner or later I'll be dead" (Loser) which leads me to believe that they are either obsessed with death or can't quite grasp the idea that it's OK to have odd song lyrics in post-Alternative New Rock. Maybe they should take lessons penning songs from Marvelous 3. "You can stick that sign up your ass. Who says it won't last. My sugarbuzz is going higher and higher everyday." (Sugarbuzz) Or even Angie Aparo in all of his falsetto glory when he croons. "A spaceship landed by the mall. There was a big parade, everybody got laid, and they burned all the books and the Chevrolets." (Spaceship) At least they aren't playing 3 Doors Down's songs as much as they continue to play poppy Nine Days and there completely redundant story of a girl. I stopped giving a crap about her damn story back in July.
"Welcome to Broadband" -- Cody Beckner.
Thanks, friend. Can you guess what I did first with my blazing 400kbs connection? I completley ripped into a game of Sierra's You Don't Know Jack 5th Dementia, that's what! ... ... ... and after losing I started downloading porno movie files. Shaddup.
I got a quick thing to say about safe sex and teaching your children to do it. Specifically, your male children. See, just last Friday I decided I should be a responsible homosexual and went to my HMO (which sounds suspiciously like homo) and got myself tested for STD's. An honorable thing to do, I thought. Well, let me tell you something. If when I was 13 was told that if I had unsafe sex and ever needed to be tested for STD's that the doctor was going to stick a -- for lack of a better word -- thingy inside the pee hole of my -- for lack of a better word -- thingy, I'd have strapped on a condom for masterbation every six hours. That's all you gotta do to keep your male kid safe. I'm still working on the female version of my story because obviously the concept of getting pregnant isn't enough to keep girlies from having safe sex.
Well, that about does it for me this week. Yeah, I know, I know. I've barely said anything. But you don't understand. I'm tired, I'm sick, and I still can't quite stop thinking about this damned election. If I thought it would have mattered, I would have ran for president and settled the whole thing. Ah, well, there's always 2004. Who knows, we still could be waiting for the results from *this* election then.
Wednesday, November 2nd, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Pardon Me & Stellar - Named Dropped This Update 15
Alright, faithful readers. Here is the Reader's Digest Condensed Version of what's happening to me. Determined to break some sort of record for the most un gay (as in happy) gaypher (as in homosexual), I got dropped on my ass less than 24 hours after enjoying a rather wicked Halloween in a field. (Among other places.) Personally, I didn't know I could be gone down on while appriciating just how sprawled out Atlanta has become.
Now, I never said I wouldn't use my abilities to code a website for evil. But, alas, I *am* the good one in this situation and I guess I really don't think trashing someone is going to make me feel much better. Still, I will say that the way I've been treated by the queers here as of late is enough to make a gay man go straight, I fucking swear!
At least when I was dicking girls and not knowing any better they would stick around for longer than an election promises made in the 11th hour. And, you know, maybe since everyone-and-their-brother is blaming everything that's wrong with the world on the fact that this is an Election Year, maybe I can blame this on that too. The damned prick was leaning to close to the middle to see what he had was better than anything he could ever dream. Or, perhaps, it was a right wing conspiricy that keeps me from obtaining and enjoying the feeling known as euphoria without downing half a bottle of phramacuidcal X.
So, in the end, I'm growing a mustache, starting to drink Budweiser, and am going to see "Charlie's Angels" tomorrow without wearing a shirt and having my pants unzipped. I figure if I can't have happiness with a beautiful boy, I'd better get started on my beer belly so I can oogle and sass waitresses at Hooters.
Until next time.
(I hope you enjoyed having your car break down, btw, Brian. Karma is a bitch.)
Wednesday, October 25th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Queer Friendly Links - Link of the Day - Hot or Not - Named Dropped This Update 15
First up today, I'd like for you to check out this picture of me. Hey! Before you start thinking, here goes Queer and more self-promotion, actually I want you to notice the collar and leash I'm sporting in the picture. Created for me by my dear friend Stephanie, I really believe it to be both fashionable and pretty. (Not to mention damn erotic, eh?) We've decided the slogan for the piece should be: Be A Dominatrix Without Feeling Like One. Look for more of her pieces to be featured on this very website, and if all goes to plan, at Pride 2001 in Atlanta, GA.
Secondly, continuing my political awareness campaign here. I'd like to bring your attention to this editoral that was found in Monday's Atlanta Constitution. The writer encourages that young people forget to vote this election year because they will drive the country downhill with their uneducated voting practicies. Obviously, editorials are supposed to be written in a bold manner, however, I'd like to point out how absurd this man's ideas are. Young people have to live and die by the rules of engagements that our Federal and State goverments hand down year in, year out just like everyone else. To believe that simply because they may seem under-educated, they should not be permitted to exercise their right to vote is a selfish boomerish perspective that should be banned itself. Trying to discourage people to vote is upsetting, especially in times when there are campaigns out there trying to do inspire the youth of America to stop letting the aged voice their opinion for them. Those campaigns are working, and the editorial accepts this fact. And quite honestly, seems scared of it. They should be because if there is anything that makes teenagers want to do something even more is when someone tells them they shouldn't be doing it. I, myself, vote for one major reason to keep my lifestyle legal. Are you going to sit back and let others decide life for you?
Last, on a very personal note. I'm not sure how he feels about this sort of thing. But, I've found a person who can't seem to find something wrong enough with me to prevent us from dating. Dispite the distance* we gotta travel, and dispite the fact that happiness is damn hard to find sometimes, it looks like I got myself a boyfriend. I know. I'm as shocked as you, faithful readers. In any case, pop some champagne -- or if you're a straight reading my page for some reason, kick back and have a Bud Light -- and wish me luck in this wily world of being taken. As for the boy in question. Thanks for finding me, Brian.
Studio Audience: <Awwwwwwww!>
Shaddap!
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Wednesday, October 17th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - QNews - Link of the Day - Beat Collaborative.
Thursday, October 12th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Triscuits and Cheese Support Me
What ever happened to me only updating once a week on hump day? I guess that's what happens when you get kicked out of your apartment by some female and have to move back in with mommy. (Just kidding, naturally.) Still, with obviously more free time than ever to do things like think about things to write about, here's yet another update for QueerDom chock full of insanity.
First, I'd like to say I'm sorry for making hamblin.com (otherwise known as The Black Avenger) my link of the day a few updates back. While I do listen to his radio program often, I want you to know that I don't agree with much of what he says and offered up his link, like many others, as yet another place you may want to click to in order to recieve information. While we can all pretty much say we are disapproving of www.godhatesfags.com, it is important that we know such views exist out there so that we can better combat situations at hand. Ken Hamblin's site (and radio show) falls into this catagory.
Alright, now that I got that bit out of the way. Snowbloom writes, "Happy Coming Out Day! This is something that made me think of your website...I wonder if you wanted to put a note up about National Coming Out Day?" While for many people Oct 11 is a very important day to finally get around to telling that person they've neglected all this time, I can't help but wonder what the point is really. I'm not in any closet and I live my life without one. Not everyone does, but quite honestly, I don't think you should pick Oct 11 as the day you decide to call Aunt Ida and say, "Guess what, I'm gay." Naturally, I'm not bashing you Snowbloom, but it's just not that important to this fairy. However, I will consider your letter your own private way of Coming Out.
Finally, thought it's probably against my better judgement I'm going to once again tell you a few things you should know about this election shit. GENERALLY speaking old people are the demographic most likely to vote. GENERALLY speaking old people don't like to talk about homosexuals. I'd even go so far as to say GENERALLY speaking, they don't like you one bit. The sad reality is that GENERALLY speaking young people don't vote, and yet GENERALLY speaking it's the younger generations that truly are open minded, free-spirits.
My question then becomes: Are you going to let them decide if America continues to only moderately support you -- and if you are under the age of consent and are gay -- NOT support you at all? The fact is the most vulnerable person in America is not a ghetto girl as most suspect, but rather a 15 year old, white, homosexual boy, living in rural America. Don't let Bush destroy what we already have. Don't let Gore lie to you and promise things he'll never try to obtain. But most importantly if you *do* support a canadate already, and can vote in three weeks, DO SO. Don't let some old fart who doesn't like "those people" to voice their opinion as if it was every persons.
I'll see you next Wednesday. And if you are wondering why there are no links in this update like usual, it's cause Kaelen said I didn't have to put any. So there!
Tuesday, October 10th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - The Ultimate Masterbation Resourse
(Re-read the disclaimer before jumping on me. Pictures were from newsgroups, idea was mine.)
Well, it's finally happened, people. QueerDom is finally endorcing a canadate. After reading and reading and reading all of the canidates websites, it's really official. I want you to ACTUALLY vote for yourself. Libertarian. I know alot of people say they will but come November the feel it's a waste of a vote all of a sudden. Don't do it again this year. We can't wait another four years.
Thursday, October 5th, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - QNews - QueerCAM - Link of the Day - The Black Avenger - Names Dropped 7.
Hallo everyone. So, have you been enjoying QueerCAM? No? Why not?! I paid lots of my hard earned paperboy money to exploit myself on the internet and you're going to enjoy yourself damn it!
I got an email from Anthony at Clayton State here in Morrow, Georgia who writes.. "your website isn't faggy enough." And you know, at first I was offended... but then, I realized, maybe this Anthony punk has some truth to his words. When WAS the last time I wrote something specificially related to gay or lesbian topics? Exactly. So today I present to you my Density of Souls Book Review.
Also make sure you check out the QueerCAM 's brand spank-me new Frequently Asked Questions page.
Density of Souls, by Christopher Rice aka Anne Rice's kid.
So, the boy who wrote this -- and I call him a boy because I saw him in person when he came to sign and read from his book late last month, and he is definately younger looking than he should be -- is Anne Rice's kid. He actually answered questions relating to the fact that he didn't mind so much "living in her shadow" if that's what it takes to get his book read. And considering the fact that this is his first novel, he probably hasta make as many friends as he can right now.
Set in New Orleans (where else?) the story is about mainly four youths who's secrets start stacking up on one another long enough to start causing the domino effect when they get to High School. Steven is the gay one and that's your hero, for all practical purposes. Meredith is kind of a classic fag hag, except she does more for Steven than anyone expects her to. Greg is a strange one to type-cast because he does some things that make you think one particular thing, but then is affected by other characters so greatly, that he changes his nature. Brandon is your grade a basher. Big, hulking, and definately one to invoke fear.
What makes "Density of Souls" a good book is also what makes it very difficult for me to enjoy: The pacing. Christopher doesn't spend much time on any one particular scene. This creates a quick paced feel, but yet if there is anything you wanted to kind of hone in on, you're not allowed. This is especially problemsome when you want to know more about Steven's sexual escapades. Though there are two scenes that Christopher does hit right on the mark one of which he read for us at the signing. Our hero and a boy are outside, in the cold, along the Mississippi drinking beer and discussing the tragic events that have happened when amazingly the boy kinda comes up behind Steven and wraps his arms about him. Snow starts falling and for New Orleans, that's a rare thing. The other scene that is remarkable is when Steven is later discussing with a date about what makes him feel gay. The date talks about advocacy and political things and Steven comments that he feels gay because he enjoys being between some guy's legs. It may become a classic description of the debate many homosexuals feel when they think of their orientation as intimate and also political.
"Density of Souls" (which for weeks I mislabled "Destiny of Souls") is not what many would have expected from the son of vampire queen Anne Rice. But considering the fact that he says he "wrote the book he wanted to read" I believe the book can be a rather interesting adventure for someone who may need to take a break from the hundreds of other trash novels with gay characters. After all, there are some true thrilling elements in Christopher's book that'll hook straights as well.
Monday, October 2nd, 2000
I thought I'd give you a heads up about QueerCam.
I'm not making any promises or apollogies to no body about it. So you can just forget that right now. I got the camera with my new computer and I'm fooling around with it and sometimes it may even broadcast live pictures.
Like I'd make something like that up.
So when's the best time to try QueerCam. Late nite on the East Coast, I guess. Hell, I dunno. I'm a newb when it comes to this sort of thing. Still, lemme know what you think by emailing me Here.
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - ODK.com - Total Names Dropped 20.
*Those who want to avoid political banter click here*
Guess who the goverment doesn't like again? That's right. Hollywood. (Not to mention the music and video game industry.) And I'm thinking to myself, did I just get into a Delorian and go back to the 80's? Hello, McFly! The goverment has been trying with little success to try and get some censorship involved in Hollywood and other entertainment industries all for the sake of the children. They like to use the phrase, "Where this country is going..." and use children to fuel any fires they start. After all, is anyone in their right mind going to go against anyone who's doing something "for the children?"
Of course not.
That's why before the Simpsons you get a box up in the corner that says DSV 14 G LMNOP or some other bullshit like that. It's why on the cover of your Marshal Mathers disk you got a big fat Warning label on it. (As if a fourteen year old doesn't know Slim is gonna use bad language.)
But what bothers me is the fact that the federal goverment, in all of it's nasty glory, wants to take things farther. They always wanna take things farther. It's not good enough to label things. It's not good enough to slap the horrid NC-17 on a movie, thus pretty much garenteeing you'll never see it. It's not good enough that before a recent showing of "Philidelpha" on basic cable last week the network ran a disclaimer because the movie dealt with *gasp* gay characters.
It gets worse. Because in the good old days (as the Republicans like to call any year where they had someone in office repressing the public) a person who liked the idea of PARENTS POLICING THEIR OWN CHILDREN could simply vote Democrat and not have to worry about the goverment continuing its constant infringment on our American rights. But alas Eric and Dylan had to go and shoot a bunch of fellow teenagers sparking a flame that just won't die in the minds of politicians.
Guess who's responsible for the group that puts warning labels on your music? Tipper Gore, that's who. And guess who's screaming at Hollywood that their ratings system is not being inforced and even worse the industry is pulling a Joe Camel and advertising adult themed material to young viewers? Not just the Republicans but the Democrats as well.
What's a liberal to do?
I mean, exactly who does:
If you know which canadate I should vote for, please email me and clue me in. Some say Libertarian, but I'm not so sure. Just remember that the election is a hair under 6 weeks away and registration deadlines are even sooner. We may not know who the hell we should vote for, but we should at least vote for someone.
Is Aaron Carter running for the White House. I heard he's having a party and we should come get some.
Wednesday, September 21st, 2000
> Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Toonami - Total Names Dropped 13
Well, everyone. I hope you all are going to continue to come visit me even though I haven't updated in a while I was on vacation in Jamacia -- except, well.. I was invited to go there by my straight room mate who's marrying a straight girl (makes sense right?) and it was going to be in the middle of an all straight, all couples, all inclucsive place. I went, but maybe I should have turned the offer down. Not only did the vacation completely suck, the only good things about it was the actual marrage ceremony, some of the foods, and getting to go Richard Hatch on the beach.
So, now that I'm done ranting about that. Here are a few other items I'm finding completely incredulous.
The Summer Olympics are in Sydney for the rest of September. Of course that means it's nearly fall here. But considering the way the world works, it's almost Summer there. (And their toilets flush backwards, don't'ch'a know?) So I guess that all works out. Except for the 15 hour tape delay created by the time difference between America and Australia. Not much fun and so NBC (Nothing But Commercials) is getting the worst raitings ever for the Olympics. It's going to take a bombing or something to turn this thing around, I just know it. But this time, maybe they should try picking a suspect they can actually catch afterwards.
And why is it that there is only one location to shoot promo-pictures in all of Sydney?
Finally today, there is a news piece in my local paper that mentions a crooked coroner who bilked taxpayers out of a shit load of money by making up records and going to Medicare and extracting funds to help pay for their fake births, illnesses, and deaths. So now they're going to have to replace him with an election. I'm thinking. WTF? Election? I didn't know coroner's were elected. What exactly can they run about? What issues face coroner hopefuls? The paper then goes on to mention democrat and republican coroner names. So, does like a democrat get really liberal with his declaration of death? "You're dead. You are dead. Hey, dead!" And then the republican coroner is more conseravitive with his announcements of death? "I really don't wanna use the word dead, but..." Doesn't make any sense to me...
But then again, now that I think about it. If coroners are politicians then isn't bilking taxpayers out of money par for the course?
PS: Shout-outs to Kaelen and Dante Master who have started my addiction to Gundam Wing. You prettyboy bastards!
Wednesday, September 6th, 2000
>Updated Today - QNews - Link of the Day - Unbreakable
Wednesday, August 30th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Little Prince of Pop - Total Websites Linked This Update 28.
Wow! Can I guess it or what?! Although it wasn't exactly Ike, Tay, and Zak that drove the Koala Master away, I couldn't have anticipated a shorter attention span. Make sure you send your dating resume to queer@queerandthefatguy.com because I'm confident there is no one I can't NOT date.
On a more cheerful note, Hanson was one of those oppertunites that I don't think I'll ever get again. Considering the layout of The Tabernacle here in Atlanta, the entire seating thing was standing room only, general admission. This meant I got within 10 feet of the boys who were as sexy as ever. Ike was wearing vintage 70's dress-up clothes complete with olive green button up shirt and coords. Tay wore a sleeveless white shirt and by far looked the hottest, though I'm an Ike kinda guy myself. Zak wore a Def Leppard shirt which I found quite humorous. The boys played three mini sets with the one in the middle being acustic and down in front. Very nice. Considering I met some girls who'd paid over 150 dollars for a ticket that cost me 25, I was very delighted. Even if I was one of maybe 50 boys there.
In other personal news, I'd like to speak out against the Republicans and Democrats. (Clicking those links may prove pointless as both websites suck.) While I know it's an election year and all and everyone in Congress is worried they're going to fail an immunity challenge and get voted off Capital Hill, there is no reason to be as stupid as they have been acting in the last few weeks. I've learned the following and I'm not so sure this is a good thing.
Everyone and their Big Brother is saying that America is degrading. You're damn right it's going downhill. We have judges in Fayettville, GA who think they have the power to ban teenagers from dancing while other judges are caring more about the Microsoft monopoly and the evil evil ways of Napster instead of doing something important like destroying the market for homophobia, racism, and intolerance for any lifestyle.
I find it very frightening that our elected (and wanna be elected) officials are wanting to return America to it's olden "glory" days. Yeah, like I'm sure blacks would like to return to days of lynching and oppression. Just like I'm sure all of the other forign bodies that have journeyed to the United States would like to return to their respective countries. 'Cause after all, America was only great for white, rich, old men way-back-then. Oh. Well. Now I understand why most politicans would want that. They're all white, rich, old men.
Anarchy is starting to sound like a good idea.
Wednesday, August 23th, 2000
>Updated Today - Queer Friendly Links - QNews - Link of the Day - Moby.Org
Wednesday, August 16th, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Taste the Rainbow™ - Total Websites Linked This Update 29.
So it appears that after doing the reviews, doing the updates, and doing the ticket takers (at our local queer filled AMC) Wednesday is the bestest day I can finally get around to updating my home turf. Wonderful. I've always been infactuated with hump day but God I pray my site doesn't become anything like this one!
And speaking of infactuation: I'm getting to be downright obsessed over this vampish little boy, Rollo Weeks. Don't know him? Of course not! He's a virtual unknown kid actor who will play opposite Jonathan Lipnicki in New Line Cinema's "The Little Vampire" on October 28th. Now I know it's sort of an unspoken promise that I won't talk movies on this site, and I have dropped more names back there than Eminem, so I'll move on after I get this last little bit off my chest. Can he bite me? Just once? Please? Right here, on my neck?
And now on to the mailbag:
What's that you say?! You didn't realize that QueerDom had a mailbag?! Well of course I have a mailbag. It's just not many people put mail into it. You can change that by emailing me at queer@queerandthefatguy.com. Real hard eh? Anyway, like I said... On to the mailbag.
Greg writes: Hey Queer, Caught your site's link of stileproject.com ... heh.. finally.. another queer that doesn't like Out magazine and Will and Grace and generally doesn't fit the fag stereotype.
Yeah, it's pretty great that I'm collecting second-hand visitors from the link Stile put up for us in exchange for the banner we put up on the main Q&TFG Dot Com website that is giving children in Japan seizures. As for the fag stereotype, do you think Jonathan Davis of KoRn minds that I prefer his music over Effiel 65's? By the way, KoRn sings "Make Me Bad" while Effiel 65's "Blue" is just plain bad. (Those that website I just linked up for them kicked some serious ass). And speaking of music: Who invited Jon Bon Jovi to the new millenium and why is Mariah Carey being allowed to molest John Cougar Melloncamp's classic li'l diddy about Jack & Diane? Freaks!
Mike writes: do you have a spell checker???
I gave up on spell check when it told me that assmonkey was the best way to spell Mike. Maybe I should give it another shot, whaddya say? (PS: Mental note, run spell check to see if whaddya is a real word.)
Well folks, I hate to say it but my time here is done. But I got a zillion and one things for you, I'm assured because, get this, I may actually have what is commonly referenced as "a date" on Friday. Of course, once Brett finds out I'm going to Hanson next Tuesday, I'm confidently assured that the interest he has in me will be short lived.
Wednesday, August 9, 2000
>Updated Today - QNews - Link of the Day - Find books on Shakin' That Ass
Wednesday, August 2, 2000
>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Join the National Rifle Association
I just bought a CD. Twenty bucks. I exchanged all of my coins that were in this Magic: The Gathering box I had kept from long ago. It cost about 5 bucks to change 60 dollars from coinage into bills. I think that's a decent price to pay considering the headache that is pared with rolling coins. My roommate disagrees. I know he does, because I've seen him rolling coins in the living room while watching a Mystery Science Theatre 3000 episode. I don't think he's ever had 60 dollars to roll though.
Back to the topic at hand though, Napster got a repreive and won't have to shut down while the courts decide if they are breaking the law by allowing users to use software to connect to each other and share MP3s. I used Napster to try and get the songs that were on the disk that I just purchased but only found 3 songs available. Before then, I had only heard one song by the band played on the radio. So I suppose I'd be a good witness for the case. I heard one song, wanted more, downloaded 3 more from Napster -- or rather someone who was using Napster, as the service itself does not contain any material -- wanted more, and bought the CD.
Except, I just paid Whorehouse Music 20 bucks for a disk that I believe should have only cost 11-15. So in the end, the three "free" songs I found, still ended up making me take it up the ass by the Record Companies because I know for a fact that VAST will not recieve the coinage that I could have spent all day rolling to purchase the disk because Elektra Records will have snapped up most of it claiming it costs so much to produce a website, disk, and promotion. Still, naively Napster.com promotes the idea that "maybe if we all write the big, bad companies they'll stop trying to shut us down." While I seriously doubt that's the case, I particuarly thank them for making it easier for me to bitch to those who overpriced my latest purchase.
So this is what commercialism is all about.
It's overrated.
Friday, July 28, 2000
>Updated Today - Link of the Day - Pro Wrestling Gay? No Way! - QNews
Wednesday, July 19th, 2000
>>Updated Today - Main Page - Link of the Day - Plutonium Won't You?
So, like, this is my first real post on this site, right? And I really wanted to do everything right, right? Except right now I'm feeling so nausiated. I can't really trace why but someone suggested that I was feeling sympathy pains for my room mate's fiancee. And I'm thinking, this can't be true. I mean, it's not like I'm on an episode of Will & Grace here or anything.
I hate that show by the way. I know I'm supposed to love it, bow down in front of it, let it lube me up and drive me home or whatever, but quite honestly I don't like the program. Maybe I'm still bitter that Ellen was butchered. To me, that show was 100% more gay than Will & Grace will ever be. When the punchlines consist of just using gay and lesbian steriotypes just to make it a gay and lesbian friendly show, I don't laugh. I cringe.
Maybe I'm just a spoiled gay brat.
I don't like Out magazine either. I just got my two month late free copy and I haven't read but 7 pages and I'm already sick of the whole thing. First off, the entire letters section is devoted to people who don't like Whitney Houston. Like I give a shit. And it seemed the letters echoed my feelings. But did we need pages about that? Then the magazine goes on to talk about this, that, and the other on the prowl to find one shred of gayity to any news item it finds.
Elian Gonzoles went to Cuba today. He was taken on a plane that once was used to haul Boy George's Gay Ass around.
Prez Clinton continued meeting with Middle East people today and the summit was catered by Three Queer Meals A Day a company based out of Washington DC's trendy GAY DISTRICT!
I'll see you later this week people, I'm headed to Six Flags Over Georgia tomorrow where the percentage of gay boys is high and the percentage of cute ones is even higher.
Sunday, July 16th, 2000
>>Updated Today - Main Page, Link of the Day - Get Kinky with Donkies and QNews
Welcome to QueerDom, I'm Queer. Er. I mean. Well, I am Queer, but I also have a regular name. It's Jonathan and I'm really glad that you've decided to visit my special area of Queer and The Fat Guy's Movie Reviews. As sort of an introduction I'd like to tell you what I plan on doing with this part of the internet. It's outlined below in a bulleted mission statement. I want you to read over it and remember to click the email link at the top of the page to let me know what you think.
So that gives you a basic idea on what I'm planning on doing around here. Make sure you check in throughout the week and find out what the heck I'm up to. Between writing reviews for the movies that are released, showing you things you'd rather not see, and lampooning the news, what else do you want? Write in and tell me and I'll see what I can do.
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